BEAUTIFUL MESS.

There are very many kinds of women, today i’m looking at the type I call ‘BEAUTIFUL MESS’..

A beautiful person is one that is pleasing to the senses or mind aesthetically.

A mess on the other hand is a dirty or untidy state of things.

Jason Mraz in his song ‘beautiful mess’ defines such women as strong but needy, humble but greedy. He adds that their style is quite selective but their mind is rather reckless. They are the kind that will hurt you without any remorse. You will love them and they will leave you without any reason why and they will tell everyone how you deserved it. Perhaps the only reason they may give you is that “…it is not you it’s me…”.

When they hurt you they will leave you messed. Usually the messed up guy will stay messed for most of their life unless they figure out a way to move on. Most of these guys resort to being players or bad boys.

Many women have never understood why some guys are bad boys or players, well the answer is that they fell in love with a pretty girl, they enjoyed sweet love until the bitch woke up one day and left the guy in ‘cold blood’.

Many of you have seen marriages were the couple loved themselves so much and after a while even with kids the woman says she no longer loves the husbands and opts for a divorce leaving the guy messed. Well this is the example of beautiful messes.

These women usually have no idea what they want, it’s about convincing them and if something or someone else convinces them more than you do then they will leave you.

A characteristic of these types of women is that they don’t stick to one man; they fall in love with many guys and usually have many marriages and break ups or divorces.

To draw this in perspective I’m going to use examples of celebrities since we can all associate with them.

Jennifer Lopez’s has been with Sean Combs, before being with Ben Affleck while still married to her second husband Cris Judd. Her first husband was Ojani Noa and recently got divorced from her third husband Marc Anthony.

On the other hand we have Beyonce Knowles who even though she is pretty, she has been married once and is still married to Jay z.  So before you fall in love or even get married make sure you woman is not the Jennifer Lopez type but rather the Beyonce type.

So then those two examples should help you understand what I mean by BEAUTIFUL MESS.

One characteristic of beautiful messes is that once you date them and break up with them, you usually never remain friends or at least you never stay in contact.