TIPS ON HOW TO GET A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP

One of the most common dilemmas is that why it’s hard for some people to find relationships that work out. Some people every 5 months or less keep changing lovers / relationships as though they are cars. But despair not; today I’m giving you practical solutions to your predicament.

The mistake made by most people is that they only follow their hearts when making relationship decisions. Many factors must be considered before making any emotional or relationship decisions. It is for this reason that I recommend that all of us should have relationship advisors preferably one of our friends.

We have to accept the fact that we are now living or moving towards a fast world and as such the dating system in this generation is non-functional and does no longer meet the needs of the 21st Century.  This means that new alternatives should be invented.

One solution I recommend is that before you enter a relationship, it is imperative that you first make a feasibility study like those made before investing money in any business. This means intense research so as to find someone with a very good compatibility rate.

What should be included in the feasibility study for your relationship?

    First and foremost is finding out what you really need or want: is it a relationship, a fling, a friend or a lover.

    if it is a relationship that you seek find out and list down your specifications and expectations of the relationship and also list down the primary ones (those you can’t compromise on) and the secondary ones (those you can compromise on)

    Upon finding that out, you should embark on a search for a person who fulfills your requirements.

    If there is already someone in line, then match those requirements and see if he or she meets your specifications and expectations.

    As soon as that is ascertained, make research and find out the expectations of your potential suitors and see if you can meet them or if you can match them.

Do not just blindly fall in love and end up in a relationship because your heart says so, use your brain.